Monday, June 22, 2009

Thoughts on Leadership and Trust

Adopted from an email by: Command Master Chief Marcos F. Sibal, U.S. 7th Fleet

Let’s talk a little about a few things I’ve been bouncing around as of late. You’ve heard it before: “So and so had an incident last night so I heard they were going to make it difficult for everyone and do a massive disciplinary training for all personnel...” Putting more restrictive policies on our People every time something bad happens, in addition to what we already have in place (which are several and confusing even to me), is viewed as another negative to duty in the Navy as a whole and in my opinion contributes to a lot of dissatisfaction on and off the job.
I understand the U.S. alliance piece which we have since protected by instituting policies that may mitigate further occurrences of incidents detrimental to our presence in foreign countries. And we’ve gone high and right on those at times as well. Some valid, some overboard but the bottom line is the number of incidents the Navy has experienced in the last year or so are minute in comparison to other organizations.

There has to come a time when we just have to TRUST our People to do the right thing and to remove that once they prove us wrong attitude. Give them that trust when you first meet them and tell them that they and they alone can have the potential to lose that trust. It is now up to them. They have to make the right choices and do the right things. People have to know to take responsibility and accountability for anything that they do and that there is a price to pay for non-conformance. That, in my mind, is the only way they will learn to take some amount of risk when making decisions in and out of the organization they are a part of and can ultimately make them better leaders.

The days of “babysitting” in the guise of “taking care of our People” should be a thing of the past. When someone falls flat on their face we tend to come to their aid right away; picking them up and dusting them off. All good for a leader but step back and think about that again...what if you just let them pick themselves up and compose themselves? I believe they learn a lot more that way. We cannot continue to exist as leaders if we don’t get back to leading people. Leading not only by being examples of uncompromised integrity but leading by teaching them their jobs and making sure that every mission and every piece of equipment is operational and ready to respond to any situation/contingency.

The bottom line is trusting your People to do the right thing all the time and respecting them for that. Three basic things can make anyone happy: Food, money and time off (yeah, yeah --- I know... Sex too, but that comes with the time off). Not all-inclusive of course but doing them right by those things will give you a content, happy and motivated person who is ready to work until you tell them to stop.

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Monday, June 15, 2009

U.S. 7th Fleet and Social Media

From the U.S. 7th Fleet Public Affairs Officer:

Earlier this year, 7th Fleet started an initiative to use social media as a means of communicating and engaging with internal and external audiences. This included establishing an official presence on Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Flickr and YouTube, as well as redesigning our official website, www.c7f.navy.mil, to make it more dynamic and user friendly.

Every day throughout our area of responsibility, the men and women of the 7th Fleet are taking part in exercises, port visits, and other important bilateral and multilateral activities that support our nation's commitment to an engagement strategy based on partnership, readiness and presence. Social media tools provide additional avenues to distribute the news, photos, and video stories highlighting our accomplishments, and to encourage dialogue with the public about what we are doing.

I invite everybody as well as your friends and families to bookmark these sites, to subscribe to our "Tweets", or to become a "Fan". I also encourage you to actively and responsibly participate in the discussion.

Here's where to find us:

Web: www.c7f.navy.mil
Facebook: www.facebook.com/pages/US-7th-Fleet/54808967401
MySpace: www.myspace.com/us7thfleet
Flickr: www.flickr.com/us7thfleet
Twitter: www.twitter.com/us7thfleet
YouTube: www.youtube.com/us7thfleet

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Saturday, June 13, 2009

The Lie Revealed

Why do men lie to women?

This question has pondered the sexes for centuries. I truly believe this query has been answered in several narratives both comical and dramatic. I will only attempt to provide my own take on this behavior and get down to the root cause of this trivial matter. Yes, I wrote trivial. I will not bow to the emotional state of the opposite sex and I will not attempt to try and understand these emotions or the trigger for them. I will only write that the feminine state is defined by deep-rooted emotions that can erupt at the very slightness of misunderstanding or misbehavior by the male.

Many people hide the truth, not just men but women too. Everybody is different, people get scared or afraid to disappoint someone so they lie.

What do men lie about?

Most men lie about height, how much they earn or intentions. Yes, intentions are another lie, many men say something but they don’t know what they mean. For example, a man can say he prefers friendship, but what he means is that he wants a friendship that can lead to a romantic relationship.

When a woman says she wants to be friends, very often she means what she says - “just friends”.

The dating game can be brutal, harsh and difficult for some people. It is true that some women lie to appear more desirable. We all have certain biases when we are meeting new people, so we have to be judged by others even against our will.

Would you be more careful and judgmental or the opposite?

People like less judgmental people. It can hurt you in the long run though if you meet people who lie and cheat. Everybody wants to be liked, so less judgmental people are more attractive and easier to talk to.

If you lie, I hope you will stop. People who lie are afraid to be judged and afraid to be rejected. Rejection is part of life and you are going to be rejected more or less depending on certain factors.

The Quandary

No one wants to be hurt, but no one wants to be lied to either. If you want to stop lying think about the other person. Think how upset, betrayed he or she would feel if you she/or he found out the truth. It’s better not to say anything than to lie. Don’t lie by omission either. Be an honest and caring person.

Caring about truth can be hard if you were treated badly. If you were betrayed too many times by many different people, you are more likely to give up on truth. If you were abused don’t become the abuser.

The world has enough lairs and cheaters already and you don’t need to be one of them. Listen to your heart and your inner values. Know what matters to you. Somewhere inside you there is a place where you want to be an honest person. A desire to be loved and cared for are good qualities.

Okay, now that I am done with the Venus crap, let me get down to the nitty-gritty and explain exactly why men lie.

I watched a movie for the second time recently; titled "Knocked Up." It’s a funny relationship movie that is worth watching if your time permits. I also watched Dane Cook’s stand-up special on Comedy Network called "Isolated Incident." After spending time viewing these shows I was prompted by two scenes (one in each) to think about why men lie, or choose to lie in certain situations. Well here is my take on the matter and I do believe I have hit the bull's-eye.

A lie is spoken because at the given time the individual does not want to deal with any challenging intellectual riggers. Think carefully about this. There are many situations in which telling the truth will only lead to a debate or worse, an argument; whereby telling a lie will grant the same individual peace; momentary freedom to do what he or she wants to do. Remember in the movie “Knocked up” where the husband would lie to his wife about going to see local bands two or three nights a week? She did not believe him but did not argue with him either. He told the lie so he didn’t have to deal with any emotional fallout.

Ask yourself these questions. Are there times where you just want to do something honest and have a good time doing it? Is it possible to have a good time after having argued with someone you care for or love? Think again of the scene from “Knocked up.” Could the husband have had a good time at the sports fantasy league meeting if he had just augured with his wife? (Women reading this blog don’t even attempt to answer this question.)

Women! You do this crap too! But in your minds it’s different, right? You have a good reason that men don’t understand. And it’s important to you. Well sisters, I think I know the reason - you don’t want to deal with any challenging intellectual riggers (of if you prefer bullshit) at the given moment! Right? You just want to go and do what you want to do and have a nice time doing it.

What’s the answer? Well I believe it is what I have done for years. I accept the truth and live with it regardless of how the truth makes me feel. I respect the person telling me what they want to do and I let them do it without any issuance of my own intellectual crap!

Bottom line: We all lie (men and women). If we’d dispense with the bullshit perhaps the lies would be unnecessary.

"Thanks for reading, thanks for visiting."

Copyright © 2010 by Palmer Pinckney II

Friday, June 12, 2009

the Eighties (Muzic non-stop)

The 1980s refer to the years from 1980 to 1989, the time between 1979 and 1990.

The 1980s are well known (and often ridiculed) for the popular culture of the time such as the over-the-top fashion, big hair styles and the commercialization of music and film.The 1980s was also an era of tremendous population growth around the world which, along with the 1970s and 1990s, was among the largest in human history. This growth occurred not only in developing regions but also developed western nations, where many newborns were the offspring of Baby Boomers.

Music:


The decade began with a backlash against disco music and a movement away from the orchestral arrangements that had characterized much of the music of the 1970s. Music in the 1980s was characterized by unheard of electronic sounds accomplished through the use of synthesizers and keyboards, along with drum machines. This made a dramatic change in music.
The music channel MTV had just began so many very creative music videos were being made alongside songs. The very first video to be aired on MTV was Buggles - Video Killed The Radio Star. This video heavily showed off the use of synthesizers as they were new to many people and the sounds they produced had been unheard of!

Michael Jackson revolutionized music with his best-selling album Thriller. Thriller, released in 1982, is the world's all-time best selling album with over 104 million sold copies. His mannerisms and trends were copied repeatedly, from the single-glove, to the various jackets he wore, and the now-famous moonwalk.

Bands such as Duran Duran made lavish music videos which made MTV a cultural phenomenon. Early eighties groups such as Devo and Haircut 100 were pioneers. Pop artists such as Madonna and Prince mastered the format and turned it into big business.

New Wave and Synthpop were developed by artists such as The Cars, A Flock of Seagulls, Gary Numan, Depeche Mode, Japan, Soft Cell, Bananarama, New Order, and Tears for Fears, and become popular phenomena throughout the decade, especially in the early eighties.

Even Heavy metal, Big Hair Bands and Glam metal, experienced extreme popularity in 1980s, becoming one of the most dominating music genres of the 1980s with artists such as Iron Maiden, Judas Priest, Van Halen, Kiss, Twisted Sister, Aerosmith, Poison, Ratt, Skid Row, Hanoi Rocks, Motley Crue, Def Leppard, Queen, Whitesnake, Quiet Riot, Bon Jovi, Guns N' Roses, AC/DC, and Rush, all receiving extensive airplay.

Thrash metal appeared and became an underground sensation originating mostly in the Bay Area (San Francisco), and New York City. A few of these acts, such as Metallica, Megadeth (formed in Los Angeles), Anthrax(formed in New York) and Slayer (formed in Huntington Beach), managed to achieve mainstream exposure (especially during the early 1990s), and were frequently seen as alternatives to the poppier "glam metal" bands of the day.

Extreme metal began, with bands such as Venom, Bathory, Hellhammer, Celtic Frost, Death, Possessed, Morbid Angel and gained prominence in the underground.

House music was a new development in dance music mid-way through the decade, growing out of the post-disco scene early in the decade and later developed into acid house, a harder form of dance often associated with the developing late 1980s drug culture.

Hip hop and rap music, introduced by urban youths of predominantly African American descent, debuted in the pop culture scene as early as 1979, with the Sugar Hill Gang's single release Rapper's Delight. MTV picked up on this movement with "Yo! MTV Raps", a one-hour show dedicated to hip-hop music videos. The Hip hop scene evolved to become a powerful musical force, bringing with it several dance styles. As hip hop artists such as RUN-DMC, Grandmaster Flash, Kurtis Blow and N.W.A. gathered mainstream attention, hip hop's influence began to spread outside of Los Angeles and New York City, eventually taking off into America's shores during the 1980s in 1986.

Alternative rock appeared as a then-aptly titled alternative to the mainstream rock trends of the day, with American bands such as R.E.M., The Replacements, Sonic Youth, They Might Be Giants, Camper Van Beethoven, the Violent Femmes and the Pixies, and British bands such as The Cure, The Smiths and Echo and the Bunnymen, as pioneers.

This style of music was widely popular with college students and received almost all of its airplay from college radio stations, to the extent that it was known as college rock in the U.S. for much of the decade.

Top-charting artists of the 1980s include Pat Benatar, Billy Idol, Guns N' Roses, Robert Palmer,New Kids on the Block, The Police, Lionel Richie, Bananarama, The Go-Go's, Dire Straits, Duran Duran, Van Halen, Foreigner, John Farnham, Phil Collins, Huey Lewis and the News, Wang Chung, Tears for Fears, Poison, Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam, Heart, Juice Newton, Culture Club, The Eurythmics, Def Leppard, Deacon Blue, Bryan Adams, Queen, Depeche Mode, U2, Simple Minds, Madonna, Cyndi Lauper, Cher, Rick Springfield, Tina Turner, Bruce Springsteen, John Mellencamp, Olivia Newton-John, Prince, Michael Jackson (the best-selling artist worldwide in the entire decade), Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, Aerosmith, Beastie Boys, Kim Wilde, Laura Branigan, The Cars and Bon Jovi.

Records in aid of Ethiopian famine relief, by Band Aid ("Do They Know It's Christmas?") and USA for Africa ("We Are the World") topped the charts, while the Live Aid famine relief concert in London and Philadelphia attracted thousands of attendants and millions of television viewers.
Other artists pushed for nuclear disarmament, racial harmony (Stevie Wonder and Paul McCartney in a 1981 duet release: Ebony and Ivory), and AIDS awareness. American singer Prince, French band Indochine ("3e sexe"), Canadian singer Norman Iceberg ("Be My Human Tonight"), Spanish band Mecano ("Mujer Contra Mujer") became part of a worldwide movement of artists writing innovative lyrics filled with sexual innuendos reflecting the then-popular and highly fashionable androgynous style.

In the U.S., contemporary Christian music gained popularity in the mid-80s with such crossover artists as Amy Grant, Kathy Troccoli, BeBe and CeCe Winans, Michael W. Smith, Stryper, and Petra.

With increased commercialization of popular music, thousands of new bands from all over the country sprang up in opposition by performing aggressive, stripped-down punk rock with an even larger amount of political and social awareness injected into the lyrics. Known as Hardcore punk, it would go on to influence and create other musical genres well into the 21st century.

Popular bands included Dead Kennedys in San Francisco, Minor Threat in Washington DC, Black Flag in Los Angeles and Reagan Youth in New York City. El General recorded a first album and reggaeton was born in Panama. Prince was credited with jump-starting the Minneapolis sound. Power Ballads became popular with bands such as Heart and Bon Jovi. The Hardcore Punk movement was started as a completely underground music including bands such as Minor Threat, The Dead Kennedys, and Husker Du. Hardcore also served as the springboard for indie rock as the independent network of record labels, publications and venues it developed quickly grew to encompass widely divergent styles of music made by like-minded artists.

Weird Al Yankovic started his career, singing songs like Dare to Be Stupid (song) and Eat It.
I could go on but I believe you get the point now. I know and love 80's music.

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Monday, June 8, 2009

IncrediPod

I love books, music and film. Recent technology enhancements have allowed me to have these joys close by pretty much all the time. Now don't get me wrong I do not have my iPod attached to my hip 24/7, but I do have a fair amount of books, music and film stored on the apparatus.

I recently sent out an email to all my co-workers announcing my interest in purchasing a used iPod from anyone interested in selling. I figured why give my hard-earned cash to a department store when I could rather put it into someone pocket to either purchase an upgrade to their iPod or buy groceries or other family needs. We'll it all worked out, I bought an 80 gig iPod for $80 and in-turn the seller downgraded his iPod to an 8 gig iPod Nano.

Hence the birth of the "IncrediPod!" --->

An 80 gigbyte harddrive can hold a lot of books, music and video. The IncrediPod is up to 73.6GB's. I took my entire collection of "aquired"music, movies and e-books and loaded them up. Being anal-retentive you can be assured that it's all neatly organized.

You know it's pretty awesome having my IncrediPod handy during those waits in long lines, or walks home. Heck now I have a choice while at the gym, do I want music today? If so what genre? How bout a movie or e-book?

Do you like having an MP3 player (iPod, Zune, etc...)? If so share your passion.

Its not bulky like a CD player (although I have a couple of those too) and I have all my entertainment at my disposal. I swear, the iPod was invented for people like me--those who let music color every part of their day.

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